I adore your bold color choice. I would feel very comfortable in this room. One thing nice about paint is that when you get tired of looking at it you just repaint :- Orange is my favorite for decorating and definitely a statement. Keep it and enjoy it. If you feel the need to tone it down, then follow the color of your molding and add whites, creams, or greys, with some pattern too.

I really really like the pottery barn bedding you posted, i went with darker bedding because I thought if i went with anything white or patterned it might really make the room seem loud. I think im going to order it and give it a try, i'll see if i can return the other stuff because its new and we spent over 400 dollars on it. What would you suggest I do in the ensuite? as in what colour shower curtain and towels etc. I'd like to be able to keep the browns and creams in there somehow but I like everythign to flow from the bedroom to the bath.

oops, the link for the shower curtain suggestion is:
http://www.target.com/p/interDesign-Fiore-Shower-Curtain-Black-White-72x72/-/A-13902202

I agree with the other comments that the oranfe is a bit too vibrant and not restful for a bedroom. If you decide to repaint, I'd suggest SherwinWilliams 7038 Tony Taupe
for the walls, to match your bedding. You can get this shade at any hardware store, just take the name and number with you and they'll mix it up. If you decide to keep the orange, I'd change up the taupe accessories (too cool for a warm orange shade: new table lamps 29"tall, glass or ceramic with drum shades like http://www.target.com/p/Tear-Drop-Lamp-Base-Medium/-/A-13648289;
new duvet with all over print and touches of orange to tie it in like http://www.crateandbarrel.com/bed-and-bath/all-decorative-bedding/sakura-full-queen-duvet-cover/s626368 and bathroom shower curtain like http://www.crateandbarrel.com/bed-and-bath/all-decorative-bedding/sakura-full-queen-duvet-cover/s626368. Hope it helps!

I think this is an easy fix. Although the walls look too saturated with color, if you had a white bedspread with botanical print using a bit of that burnt orange, it might really look beautiful. The bedding doesn't go and you need a patterned comforter with a white background. I was thinking along these lines at Pottery Barn although you can find less expensive bedding elsewhere. If the link doesn't work, it's on their website and called Bloomsfield Floral. I wouldn't get the shams but use solid pillowcases. Copy & paste:

http://www.potterybarn.com/products/bloomsfield-floral-organic-duvet-cover-sham/?pkey=corganic-duvet-cover-sham

Consider a metallic or crystal base on your lamps to add a little sparkle and shimmer to the space. The lamps you have currently are more buffet style lamps. Go much taller and bulkier with them to help break up the orange and provide functional reading light. I'd stick with cream, beige, or taupe shades...white would be too stark against the otherwise warm colors in the room and dark shades will cast shadows with the dark wall color and you won't be able to read well with them.

Personally, I love the orange. It's not for everybody, but if you love it {and you must to have chosen it in the first place} then go with it. Hanging a large scale piece of artwork centered over the bed will help to break up the orange. I'd make sure it's framed in a similar shade as your furniture. Also, you didn't include a photo of your windows, but it will help to further break up the orange by hanging neutral drapes floor to ceiling if you haven't already. Taller, bulkier lamps with drum shades will help too. I agree with the suggestion to add an area rug under the foot of the bed with some of the orange. You need to spread the orange throughout the room in the form of accessories to have it make sense. I'd add a printed decorative pillow with the orange to the bed and maybe even an orange throw across a bottom corner of the bed. Crown molding would also help transition the ceiling to wall color. You have a fantastic start...just need to layer in the finishing touches.

I think the color is too strong, the first thing you notice is the walls. I would consider changing it to a softer, lighter more muted coral or apricot color. In another direction, a softer lilac might be something to consider. The other thing I would consider doing is switching out the lamp shades to a drum style shade, more in the color of your ottoman. A really great start here for the room with these basics.

You have beautiful furniture. I like the orange paint, but it seems like maybe there's too much of it. Not too peaceful! Perhaps leave an accent wall behind the bed and paint everything else a taupe/khaki/gray color. Then bring in a bit of the orange in a couple of throw pillows, etc. An area rug under the bottom third of the bed that goes out beyond the ottoman would look nice too. Make sure it has a bit of the orange in it. Some artwork would be nice too. Maybe 3 large matching framed pieces over the bed would be good. Or 2 large/tall pieces, one behind either lamp. Have fun!